HH wrote:
I think one of the hardest parts of being HD (and I've discussed this with H before) is that we look for opportunities to HAVE sex, while an LD tends to look for opportunities NOT to have sex.

That really nails it! I'm always thinking about some way/place/position to have sex. LDW hasn't thought about it since our wedding day. I'll never understand how someone isn't thinking about it or gets too tired for it.

BTW, is that you at church????