HH wrote: I think one of the hardest parts of being HD (and I've discussed this with H before) is that we look for opportunities to HAVE sex, while an LD tends to look for opportunities NOT to have sex.
That really nails it! I'm always thinking about some way/place/position to have sex. LDW hasn't thought about it since our wedding day. I'll never understand how someone isn't thinking about it or gets too tired for it.