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Im using this as motivation to make my life the way i want it to be....not based on trying to please her or anyone else.


It seems that it takes the LBH feeling completely disgusted with his WW, in order to let go of wanting to please her. I'm going to say this as a former WW........don't feel that you need to hold back in letting her see just how disgusted you are with her. No more Mr. Nice Guy with her!


It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!