Just about now I want to kick her lying cheating ass to the curb (sidewalk).
This is scummy beyond belief to gaslight a then S16. Gross behaviour and gross comment in reference to oral sex. Horrific.
Disrespectful and targeted to hurt.
I wish you had it recorded.
Let me tell you this isn't you.
It is a spell breaker for you as now you know you will never unknown.
Disgust is the most powerful of detachment tools, more than anger. I know this.
I love love it when I see anger but I now know disgust short circuits the Kubler Ross cycle, kicks it into touch.
You need never ever doubt yourself as that horrible remark and behaviour will kick you back into detachment and move you fast to the land of Meh and Nah!
It is always the LBS that lets go.
She knows she has gone too far, if she is aware S18 knows he was gaslighted two years ago then her reaction may be denial or self disgust.
It's a long way back from here. So stupid and so sad.
Horrible, but now you know and can never unknown. So sending you my special rainbow strength today.
V
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW