I wonder what percentage of all our posts on this forum are written about trying to understand things we can never understand. How much time do we waste, including myself? I've been so bad at that.
This is called being human. This is called being a problem solver. This can lead to ingenuity and the invention of things that make life better. Unfortunately for us- we are trying to understand something that defies logic. We all have built in systems to want to repair what is broken- but what is broken in our spouses we do not have the tools or the ability to fix . They must take their journey on their own and hopefully come out better after the process. This is my wish for all of us here. Still wishing the best for you! Blessings!
M51 w50 T-20Yrs M-16Yrs S15- mad at W for not trying and giving up 1 Awesum dog BD 10/31/17 separate rooms 02/08/18 wife moved out 05/17/18
