HH....good to hear this. I think you're realizing that things are not usually as bad as your emotions make them seem to be. Nothing worth having is easy....just remember that.
Don't worry about whining here...just don't do it at home. This forum has helped me hit the release valve instead of doing/saying something I'd regret later. So vent away....
OBTW...just because the answer is obvious to you doesn't mean it is to H. Perhaps your answer is not his answer. Find out what his answer really is....
"The journey of a thousand miles begins with one step." – Lao Tzu
