That's great news on the web search. Though without knowing your W, I wonder if maybe she was covering in case you had checked her history and saw her search on it. Probably not, but just a thought.
I had this very thought... As you know, I err on the side of skepticism... Although I am not sure it's a big deal if she looked up the bar out of curiosity... What I would be most concerned with is any manipulation... Which she is still falling back on... And now that Hoosjim says she no longer needs IC for her body issues, then she certainly was trying to control the situation by manipulation when she made the squishy comment...
Hoosjim, be careful not to gloss over the red flags... In the past, you have explained away questionable behavior... I am not saying you are doing that... Just be aware of it...
And I want to add, she is wrong to insist on being a sounding board for any man having marriage issues... And you are wrong to let it happen... She should not be able to call the shots here...
