Last evening my ww/mlc wife picked my oldest son up from work and took a ride to discuss some recent concerns brought up by him and the rest of the family. Earlier in the day my son realized that the om was the same guy who showed up at a concert 2 years ago and also met them after the event for dinner. At the time my w played if off like it was just a coincidental meeting with someone at work. Clearly we all know this was planned! How sick on both their parts to want to bring a high school freshman into something that!!!!!
So my dilemma is have i done enough to protect my kids and show my ww that i will not tolerate an affair/open marriage? I have kicked her out of my bedroom and asked her to move out. Ive also gone dark on her with the only ezception is something for the kids. And just to give you an idea of her mental state; earlier today she texted me about ny son needing to see a psychologist because hes been feeling down and kind of lost recently, UNRELATED TO OUR SITUATION, is how she worded it????. Last evening she had a talk with him for about a half hour, which included her admitting to affair with the om that he met at concert. How the heck could she possibly say that my sons sadness is unrelated to the destruction of his family.
Im really at a lost for words on how anyone could get into this type of state. I know that it happens, ive talked to many people about it and habe read 100s of stories....but this whole thing has been surreal. And believe me all you dbusters...i get the whole let her go, gal, work on myself, etc. But i really do wonder what more we can do from an educatuon perspective, or what have you to possibly prevent this for other families. Maybe somr sort of cognitive testing or something? I dont know, just getting things off my chest. One thing for sure is that i feel new found strength to protect my kids. Im so blessed to have such great kids!!!
