Letting go for my own inner peace

[Irish M]

HI everyone

thanks for all the support ((( hugs))) KML, bttrfly, Job, DnJ, Kiro and Gerda

thanks for the D17 birthday wishes, She's now 18, I need to update that in my signature

So the cards went out. No comments written on them .Just sent to her address and girls were happy that they did not keep them. She would of received them on the 25th.

Well the 26th at 5pm. I receive a bailiff at my house with an envelope addressed to me.

written up that same day on the 26th. D18 birthday.
Funny I got the divorce paper on D18 birthday when she turned 16, So i guess there's a theme.

it states.

Miss XW is very upset receiving a parcel at her house which is a private address. This address was not given to you and miss XW is upset and worried. She would like no further deliveries made to her private house. Also, she has held her part and still does 3 years after the divorce was final. You Irish have custody of the children who are 16 and 18. Full custody and XW pays and I would like to remind you that she has not missed one child support payment within the 3 years. She would like access to her children and only her children should contact her.

You are requested to not email, text or call her in the future. No packages or mail sent to her private address. There is no need for you to update her on her children so no contact is needed.



well i simplified the message but clearly says no contact.. I have no problem with that. I do have a problem with her upsetting the girls and upsetting my parents. I will continue to defend and stand up for them if they request it from me. If my D was 38 and 40 , i'd do the same.

Her emotional abuse every time she pops her head out of her hole is now too much for D15 to handle. She has requested to me and D18 to not share anything about her birth mother . If she gets a letter to throw it away. I will respect those wishes.

I sent the letter to my lawyer so he can have it on file. He said that XW is very irrational in her requests as she instigates reactions. She is not well and this new lawyer she has clearly is taken advantage of a broken person. If XW would ask her to sue me for the moon this lawyer would take on the case for the $$. He also suggested a restraining order to her from the girls and my parents demanding her to not contact or send them anything until she has been seen by a medical professional. To protect them of any more emotional stress.

what was funny and forgotten was , She hasn't paid child support for 3 years as the first year she made a false claim with the gov't and said she had the sole custody of the girls. Received $$$ from the gov't as a single mom. They did catch her and she paid it back with a penelty.

so a whole lot of crazy.

I tell my GF about the letter, she tells me she has something to tell me. You see my Xw lives across from one of my GF sorority sisters. The friend of my GF has no interaction with XW. has met her twice and was not impressed and saw through her lies and playing victim. I told her I don't need to hear about my XW. So anything she sees or hears keep it off my path and out of any discussion. She has respected that.

my Gf pushes and says this is important.

so I say ok shoot.

well your XW was awake early last week, so it was said. Walking around the front lawn of OM2 house. EX found a purse, a cell phone and boots. Not all in the same location. Scattered across the lawn. She immediately panicked and called the police.

once she got off the phone she walked into the back yard and there was a woman. Barefoot and seems lost. Couldn't stand up straight. XW asked her if she was ok. The woman said she was in a bar a couple of towns over and after her second drink remembers nothing. Woke up here. XW hugged her and he woman started to cry. The police showed up and took her to the hospital . They want to ensure she is ok. However the police come back and tape off OM2 house with tape. Crime scene.

XW is being questioned. Neighbors are all outside on looking, Listening to whats going on. This is how my GF sorority sister knows so much.
Also it was also discovered that OM2 knows the BF of the woman.

so crazy upon crazy.

Now its possible this woman was wondering around after being drugged or drunk. Whats odd is the location. the bar is 15 miles away. Nothing between both towns but smaller towns, farms and corn fields. What are the chances she ends up at that house where OM2 knows the BF of this woman.

well to add to it. XW works at the local paper. Needed to share the story. Had one ofh te reporters write up a witness to a strange event. She did this as an unidentified witness. She goes on how supporting and how she saved this woman from trauma. How she found he purse and didn't give up until she solved the case. Bla bla bla. all about her and nothing about this poor woman. Nothing about the connection of the BF and OM2

makes me think restraining order might be a good idea as XW is messed up with some crazy people

And how was your week lol