Quote: I guess what I'm saying is that if it wasn't the finances, it would probably be something else. And what makes it worse is that your H starts reading something that would really help you both (SSM) but doesn't see it's importance or care enough to keep going. I have the same thing.
Oh don't worry, I don't think it's about the finances. I'm not sure WHAT it is. I could give you his list of excuses...but you've probably heard most of them before. He's too tired, his back hurts, his shoulder hurts, we just did it last week, the kids might hear us, the sun has gone down, his favorite show is on, don't I ever think of anything else, blah blah blah, yadda yadda yadda.
Ya, I'm sorry we have to have this forum, too! But glad it's here.
You mentioned you are on church staff - there is a Mike on our church staff and I keep wondering if you are him. Highly unlikely, of course, but I will probably give him a raised eyebrow next time I see him so if it's you, wink back.
