Working hard on detaching. Some of it is easier, trying not to really talk unless she starts. She doesnt say much. She does bring up divorce, and details, such as who might get what, etc. Pulled back, some things are very tough. I'm not prying, but my kids have mentioned they are going on "play dates" now, with 2 other kids. I suspect they are OM2's kids.
Like a knife being twisted in ya, hearing about that. I know when/if she gets her own place, I cant control who she hangs out with, but dam, what a kick in the teeth.
I've tried some 180's. I'm out GALing, trying to put my best foot forward, but the chances of R seem bleak...
