My story. Advice needed

[equalzr]

I completely understand there are no quick fixes, and my W may never snap out of it. That said, its been a year and a half that ive known something is going on and at least 2 years since my W said she was feeling different (crying all day on bday for no reason). Since it has been so long already, and I wasted so much time doing the wrong things as many of us here do in the beginning, Id like to make sure I am following the correct path. Some of Sandi2's advice and candid revelations have really hit home.

Very true that a MLC wasnt an excuse to go have an A. She was of sound mind to honor our covenant. I could have respected her saying we have to work on this and that, or I cant stay. That would have been the better choice imo. Right now she is showing how selfish she is, admittedly.