Oh ok, thank you both so much! I try to just smile and say ok when he does things like asking to take a box from the house (not sure why he asks unless its to get a rise out of me) but I end up being sad. I'm trying to work more on being casual about it instead of getting teary eyed in front of him.

Oh and when he calls to say goodnight to our son, we always end up chatting a little about various things before we hang up so I'm not going to be doing that anymore for a long time.

Last edited by Jlh; 07/27/18 05:08 PM.
Together for 13 years, married for 8.
H is 46
I'm 40
S is 6
Bombdrop in April 2018
Still in limbo as of 2019