Stop worrying about putting a label on it and start putting together a plan of action. Your W is an active A and you seem to think if you label MLC she will snap out of it and come to her senses. Wrong!
You mentioned setting boundaries? What are they? What are the consequences for breaking them?
If you want to turn this around you need to take massive action!
Are you exercising? Reading self help books? Getting out with friends? Seeing a therapist?
Nope, I dont have any illusions of her snapping out of it. That said, I would love to get advice from a few of our very own WW's. I think they could really help because of their insight. Ive already learned a ton from reading all their threads/posts, but coud use some advice on some particulars.
Together:20 years M:3 years Me:40 WW:40 S15 A suspected:5/17 AC:5/18 BD:8/18 WW in full blown R w/ OM Still under same roof
