Initially, W was blaming me for everything and I was accepting a lot of the blame, but then I uncovered some major lies W told, realised it wasn't me, and let her know. It has changed the dynamics. I'm the honest person with integrity whilst she is the opposite and she can't now kid herself otherwise. I believe 'if she feels bad towards me then that is her problem'.
Therefore, at the moment, I'm trying not to give W any excuses for any bad behaviour towards me so she can calm-down and reflect upon her own actions and consequences.
However, I can't afford to give it too long else she will rip me off for money etc. that she has been hiding in advance of D, but if I start D now then W will have reasons to get mad at me because of what I will want.
However, I am already doing some D prep making notes regardless of whether she starts D or if I do. If I do it, then I've got to time it right.
