I am sorry you had such a rough day yesterday. The guy has a lot of issues to work out, as well as putting his focus on his child. Everyone has given you good advice. I would suggest that you not provide dessert to someone until you are sure that there is a relationship blossoming. Some won't do the hard work to keep a relationship going if they know that you are willing to do a large majority of the work when it comes to arranging dinners, etc., and yes, providing dessert early on into a blossoming relationship. Make them work for the dessert...they'll appreciate and respect your more if they see that you are not going to provide dessert early into meet ups.
Ginger, you are worth far more than what this man has to offer.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
