I know what it's like to walk in those blue shoes of yours. If your husband is anything like mine, the fact that you're having financial problems is probably making him want sex even less than usual. It seems like stress makes HD people want sex more just to feel like something is going right in their world, while it makes LD people want it less. I feel like much of the time it's as though I'm playing a marital version of that arcade game where you have to punch down all the gophers. The gophers are all the things that might stress or turn off my LDH and I don't get to have sex until every last gopher is gone.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
