I don't want to be mean or rude, but I have a hard time with just keeping conversations casual and not saying much to him when hes at the house.
Jlh- Nothing comes easy the first time around. You have to be mindful of the situation and then practice. Fake it till you make it as they say here. Over time you will realize certain situations and triggers that will get you thinking and it will become more habit over time. Just try to keep all communications brief and firm and friendly - just continue to be upbeat! good luck on your journey!


M51 w50
T-20Yrs M-16Yrs
S15- mad at W for not trying and giving up
1 Awesum dog
BD 10/31/17
separate rooms 02/08/18
wife moved out 05/17/18