I guess I'll jump in since I seemed to have got this $hit started.........for the record I slept with my XW on our first date and our R lasted for 17 years and spawned 2 beautiful girls. That being said I have never been a date around and sleep with multiple women type of guy however our attraction was instant. I would drive 2 hours in the middle of the night to visit her, get 2 hours of sleep, and drive home the next morning. I have not taken a poll so I don't know if most men are "players" or not but maybe there are more out there than I realize.
I don't fault anyone for the choices they make as those choices are theirs to make. Do what makes you happy G however if your not getting the results that you want then consider changing it up!
