Andrew, I appreciate the perspective and it does help. HC actually told me that doesn't usually happen until the 6th date for him (he told me after). But he always tells me how he appreciates my comfort in my sexuality as a grown woman and there is nothing wrong with that and he respects it. Is it BS? I don't know.
To also speak to what you just said. I decided to reactivate my OLD profile. Since there is absolutely nothing to do at work today, believe it or not. I have been chatting with a divorced single dad. He wants to go out. Part of me feels like it is wrong because I am dating/sleeping with someone. But there is no commitment. I would never ever ever sleep more than one person at once, so that's off the table. This guy says in his profile "looking for someone who believes in love and commitment"
