Lane,
Am sorry I know you must think, how they don't care W have kidney problems unfortunately you no longer her hero. Is hard trust me I was the fixer W catch a cold I took care of Her. W even got surgery I wiped her A**. I even today had a rough day I ask the therapist how can W not remember all this. Unfortunately that's why is called a fog .

They simply see you as a enemy. Is crazy all at once not understanding how someone who loved you once is gone. W needs to find herself back home. Yes be there when she calls be her lighthouse but cut it short. So if W calls and say Hi keep it one word Example.

W. Hello how are you and kids
Me. Kids are good
W So how is your day going
Me kids are good wants to speak with them
W .......
Me ok we about to eat dinner bye

Always stay optimistic positive. We both know you going to cry but don't let her see that. Always firm. Is going be a tough road especially her being sick but make her realize what she losing
Make her fall back in love with that MAN....

I read she loves the OM beard.. then let your beard grow out ... make her fall in love again remember that Guy you where


At BD
Lesbian marriage
Me39,W36
S9,D9,S8 adopted all three
Together almost 10yrs
Bomb Drop - April 2017
W movedout - May,2017
OW June,2017
Currently 2018
Me40, W38
S10,D10,S9