Obviously my statement has struck a chord so I apologize if I offended anyone.....it was certainly not my intent. My only intent was to point out that this way of thinking does exist.
Don't apologize for saying it.
I'd rather men be honest if they feel like this. How else are women supposed to know whom to avoid?
(Caveat. I don't mind men who don't want to go out with a woman who has sex on the first date if they themselves have never had sex on a first date.But if they have a different standard for women then they do for themselves, then that's hypocrisy. And life is too short for that.)
Me: 44 H: 44 Kids: 20, 16, 16, and 10 Together/Married: 22 years H announced he was emotionally detached and considering D: 4/4/16 H announced he is going to try to stay and reconnect: 5/1/16
