Wonder--Well, this HAS been a tough road, but worth it. As my dearest boss says, "Girl, if you don't get your degree magna cum laude from this University of Hard Knocks, it's your own damn fault."
Ha ha!!!
Pam--I know Ellie responded to you on that web link. I dind't go there, so I can't comment. Meredith summed it up for me last night during our chat, and I will have to agree that it didn't sound encouraging.
But as for you, dear one! I don't think your H owes us at all. Nor do you. This is a give and take place--the "apartment" where we all shoot off ideas, hoping that someone will shed some light on our difficulties and have an idea on what we need to do to overcome them.
You and Meredith and many other friends here have helped me too. That's the good thing about this place. Face it, we DO have fun--even in spite of some really disturbing events at home. Just goes to show us all that we will not only survive, but thrive.
Maybe the next thread will have something about that concept in the title? I'll be thinking about it and probably begin a new one after I finish this project from hell for a client...
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"There are only 2 ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle."
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