Sandi,
Thanks for getting back with me today. I am re-reading everything. From this point on I know she's different. Everything you said she would say she has said..even the "faked it". Yesterday I decided to detach. I know way too late. I haven't heard from her or reached out to her at all today. She has the kids for the next few days. I think you mentioned in a different thread that the WW work is 3 fold. Sandi, I know my W is in there somewhere. My quick question is what do I do right now. Should I just be quiet and wait for her to contact/reach out to me? She is at work for another hour and then I know she will just be a her parents with our kids hanging out. Im not used to sitting in an empty quiet house so I usually got talk to an older friend of mine for a couple hours. This is so out of realm but think I can do this.
Did I mention she has stage 4 kidney failure and is on the list for a kidney transplant? Yeah, so thats coming up. I know were not doctors but do you think it might be effecting her behaviors or do you think this WW fantasy has taken over her mind?
Thanks again for your input...Im going to work on it as we speak.


ME 47 W 38
M17 T20
Separated 5/20/18
D-bomb 7/9/2018 Nothing Filed
4 kids ages 6, 10, 14, 15