No matter what happens. Whether we agree or disagree, I will never speak badly about the mother of my children to them ever.

My children will know by my actions how I conducted myself (and likewise how my W conducted herself). As to how they view how things happened or will happen, that is up to their interpretation.

I know my W is lost presently. She is not the person she used to be. I hope that someday she will get through and get to a better place whether with me or not.

She does love our children. I know that and they know that. I cannot stand in judgement of her. I can only control myself and my actions.


M51 W44
T21 M18
D14 S11
BD date 9/17
W filed 02/18
W withdrew petition following week
In house separation 03/18
In Limbo and DB'ing since 03/18
W is moving out by mid Nov 2018
A drawing up paperwork 11/18