No matter what happens. Whether we agree or disagree, I will never speak badly about the mother of my children to them ever.
My children will know by my actions how I conducted myself (and likewise how my W conducted herself). As to how they view how things happened or will happen, that is up to their interpretation.
I know my W is lost presently. She is not the person she used to be. I hope that someday she will get through and get to a better place whether with me or not.
She does love our children. I know that and they know that. I cannot stand in judgement of her. I can only control myself and my actions.
M51 W44 T21 M18 D14 S11 BD date 9/17 W filed 02/18 W withdrew petition following week In house separation 03/18 In Limbo and DB'ing since 03/18 W is moving out by mid Nov 2018 A drawing up paperwork 11/18