Those are also my fear s, and all day I have been revisiting all those painful feelings and dark thoughts from the past. We talked about it again today when she called me on the way home from work. She was not tipsy this morning obviously, and she apologized profusely again, that she's sorry and that she's so lucky to have me. Said when she realized it was late getting started she should've just said "I gotta go" and come home. For my part, I listened, said yes I was still upset, especially since we had talked about this and specifically about the being late coming home. That I didn't want us slowly slipping back into old patterns that had hurt us before. Said that I expected her to call when late.
I felt like adding that I know I haven't always been accessible in the past, and that I have been pronrto being later than I said, so I now understand her frustration with that... But now with the added hurt of the situation layered on... but I didn't.
Feel like we should discuss more, and definitely MC. Artista do you have any other specific recommendations for "nipping this in the bud"
H53/W51, R-ing 4/'18
"Do not arouse or awaken love until it so desires"-Sg.of Sg 2:7
"So oftentimes it happens,that we live our lives in chains, & we never even know we have the key"-Eagles III 1:3