On Monday afternoon I get a text from W: "I wanted to tell you I got a text asking about [friends' S3]. I ignored it and deleted it. I don't think it's appropriate for me to respond and I wanted to tell you right away out of respect for us and our situation."
Me: "Was it from [OM]?"
W: "I'm assuming. I don't know the number and I didn't want to risk it in case it was and you saw it."
Me: "Thanks for telling me. He could have simply asked [our mutual friends]"
W: "That's why I didn't respond and ignored. I honestly don't know the number so I can't be sure. But I didn't like the situation so I did what my gut told me to do."
Me: "OK. Thanks for telling me."
I have so many questions about this interaction. "Out of respect for us and our situation"? What?!? Our situation is that W is preparing to move out and leave our MH. She is essentially saying we are over. So why does she now respect us and our situation?
It's a setup. Do not buy into one word of it. She is conditioning you for something that's coming.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
