Originally Posted by DB346
I definitely still love my wife
You do not need to be "In love" to keep loving her. Keep loving her.
Originally Posted by DB346
It's like she's a complete stranger.
Normal.
Originally Posted by DB346
What she's doing has no impact on what I need to do.
Correct. Always "Do the right thing".

Originally Posted by DB346
One thing that I am having a really hard time getting past is her parents inviting the OM in to their home. I'm not even sure why it bothers me as much as it does. I don't really care about it being disrespectful to me, but it definitely makes me view these people that I loved and considered my family in a VERY different way.
Out of your control. You have no idea what story your X has told them.


"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
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