The sad truth is i dont know what my plan of action is yet, other than going dark, gal, and taking care of my kids. Im woried about my kids and the long term damage that this will cause. Ive contemplated throwing her clothes out front and changing the locks...but she will just call the police and i will have to let her in. The other option was to let her father know so he could help get her out of here. But everyone says thats controlling and not my place. So im really between a rock and a hardplace. The girl is completely gone!!!