Benito, I saw your message - thanks it stopped me. It is just that I don't yet feel prepared to start talking about D details with legal people as I'm still dealing with the shock of the split.
I think this is a big mistake. Frankly, knowledge is power. Talking to the legal team will help you understand your rights./ And what rights you are giving up by continuing on your current path. I think you should be talking to a lawyer ASAP.
Originally Posted by DavidUK
M-i-L dropped off the kids and she gave me a massive hug for ages. This is from a woman who has wanted W & I to split-up for 25 years and now lives with W. Perhaps she realises that it's now all over and/or thinks W has OM and has sympathy or perhaps she knows that I know she has helped W to hide money. I don't know, but for her to hug me like that was a lot different. I think it means the end.
I'm guessing D papers will arrive by next Friday when they go away for a week.
W will be here again dropping of the kids off first thing in the morning.
How can you stop trying to guess and hypothesize and analyze and speculate? It is such a waste of energy. WHO KNOWS what it meant. Maybe MIL was sad. Maybe she misses you. Maybe her cat died. Maybe she is worried about gun safety in your neighborhood and is glad youre safe. Who knows? As for D papers...theyll come when they come. Why spend weeks on edge waiting for them.
You need to focus on you and your life and your kids and GAL and what YOU CAN CONTROL.
