I know there are many reasons we post on the message boards while going through this process. My main assumption is you want advise on how to save your marriage. This is where my advise is focused, saving your marriage.
Almost everything that I have seen work for others is COUNTER intuitive to the person going through it.
Pursuing your W will backfire. Intuitively you believe this will work. (if I am wrong, please correct me).
"Setting her free" is the solution.
It is time to "Man up". I can elaborate on this term if you would like, just ask.
Women love to test men. This is the biggest test of your life. We want you to pass with an A.
Regards,
R2C
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712