Ovrrnbow, Wow, I don't even know what to say! That's just crazy. Your wife is totally out-of-control. I guess she's still flipping back-and-forth between you and OM and trying to justify her actions. Did you find out if OM broke it off? Even if he did, it sounds like you and your wife have a whole other set of issues to fix if you reconcile, in particular her erratic behavior and taking things to such extremes. That doesn't sound tolerable to you in the long-term even if she decides to stay and end her affair. I hope DB still keeps helping you and you can stay rational!
