My WAS - looking help and thanks in advance PART 3

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Here's a little update:

W got home from Chicago on Sunday night and said she stayed at her (girl) friend's house. I don't believe it but that's the story. She refused to find a way to assure me she was even there.

She's been home every night this week. Acting weird: kissed me, touched me, talked to me, hung out with me, went to marriage counseling, asked about putting our rings on.

The bad: she accidentally called me OM's name a few times (barf), she says what she did isn't an affair and that my friends/family are looking at it the wrong way, says her parents support that it wasn't an affair, says her parents almost invited her to bring OM to the lake on the 4th.

Today: W is running like a chicken with her head cut off. Adding all this extra stuff this morning for me to do to get ready for the lake, switching cars last minute, not leaving me a key so I'm trapped in the house, wanting me to ask you if dad's going to the lake (I think it's rude), telling me to go ask a neighbor to move the boat so I can get out.

I called her after I got everything done and left the house, she was blaming me and yelling at me for not thinking ahead to realize I'd be driving the SUV. Eventually I said well if you were thinking ahead then you shouldn't have taken both SUV keys. She yelled at me for saying "I don't know" too much, so after that I asked her a question and her response was "I don't know". But that was OK. I was calling her to try to destress from everything and laugh about it but she wants to stir the pot. It was crazy. I couldn't start the SUV bc she had both keys. I couldn't get the truck out bc the boat was blocking it. She told me to use a neighbor/friend's truck to move the boat and confirmed with him that I could and that the keys were in it. I didn't want to use it though bc she just told me a day or two ago that him and his gf were saying a bunch of stuff about me. But W didn't respond when I told her that. Eventually a guy in the neighborhood helped me out.

Then she said "maybe this is it" and I said what does that mean. She's like that's it. I should have just said that I don't care if it is bc "this is it" is better than being treated like [censored]. And she's all saying on the phone that I shouldn't be comfortable around her friends/family and I'm thinking well I have news for you.

Thanks y'all for following my sappy story.