Betsey, i wanted to ask you about your sitch. You are so wise and i wonder if there is something you would have done different now that you look back. Do you know where you went wrong? What did you do right? Im afraid my sitch is heading in the same direction as yours no matter what i do. Are you still friends with X? im not sure if i can be long time friends with my W because i have such strong feelings for her.
