Detachment.....you don't care. Her texting with OM, real or imagined, doesn't affect you emotionally. You are a duck, and the water rolls right off your back.
Work on your detachment. As long as you are so attached to what she says and does you will never evoke any changes in her. You still might not, but that is the beauty of detachment. Detachment might wake her up as she feels the loss of control. But if it doesn't, you are detached and don't care!
I'm saving this for later. Such a great reminder on detaching. My IC said yesterday that you can't detach until you actually feel detached. I'm really working on this to.
WILLD- try not to think about everything she says and what it means. It seems to continue to make us feel "stuck".
