Still no progress.. patience is the key in this but sometimes when he leaves the room after saying - it doesn't work and we are not talking- no matter how chatty, cheerful, fun I am... I am left with tears in my eyes. I am starting to ask myself- here I am 34 yo blonde, tall, attractive, intelligent (did I mention modest) getting plenty of attention outside home but my own 61 yo husband is totally ignoring me. It just doesn't make sense. I try not to believe anything in what he says and half of what he does just as suggested... keep calm and carry on... with tears in my eyes.
What I can say that each night- at least I go to sleep knowing that I did the best I could do... and I really am the best person I could possibly be.
W34 H61 M1 T3 June-H said he wants divorce but hasn't filed. Living and sleeping in the same bed, no intimacy from H side for last 12 months.
