Quote: True detachment is hard because you are not keeping one eye open, looking for some sign that it is "working." There is no real incentive to keep you moving along. That is a departure from the days of looking for "baby steps," isn't it?
Very, very hard.
Are we ABSOLUTELY sure this boat isn't sinking? Do we have enought life preservers just in CASE?? With all of us in the boat, WHY is it not moving FASTER.... arghhhh...oops, that's NOT detachment is it?!
Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.