Admittedly my "call to action" is based on old man impatience. As you approach 50 you get less worried about feelings and just want to cut to the truth. You realize that life is too short to sit around waiting for someone to come around.
That, and my ex-gf strung me along for years in the vein of "getting back together". That was in my 20s. Today, if I weren't married, and she came calling, I'd say right off. "What do you want? Because I have plenty of friends, so if it is just friendship I am out!"
But I like your plan IH. Give her plenty of time and then move on.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
