Coming out of the Fog

[Vanilla]

On yes and H2 would have been '"comfortable with me exploring my options whilst being M' and perhaps we could make joint decisions.

WTF?

I am not a cheater nor would have had any A (PA or EA). Even though H2 had come to 'understand that sexualiry was a complex matter and monogamy was only one lifestyle choice' and 'oh, one I could validity make or not. That was my decision but not his choice.

So I could stay within my M if I wanted to, but he wouldn't. But he wanted to stay M Because he liked it!

And some of the stuff I read on this board and behaviours of waywards and abusers is repulsive in the extreme. But I guess the LBS just 'Marry Him'.

When someone shows you who they are believe them.

V