Hello everyone. Sorry I haven't posted in a while but have been bogged down at work so I'm taking a break to catch up here. Whew! Just a few notes to add....
Meredith - good for you! As Betsey said, it seems like a bunch of us have hit that point where we are "moving forward" and each of us has our own decisions to make. I too have made that decision recently and in some ways it is rejuvenating. Your desire/action to talk R w/H was based on timing. They say that "timing is everything" so it was "TIME". Just like Bets realized it wasn't the right time to pass her H the letter, whether it was the rainbow or something else, timing does count. So, go live more for yourself and try to think less of H.
Betsey - (could ya stop w/the weight loss? LOL just kidding) Hooray for you! Keep it up. I hope that your life is moving in a better direction even though you are still waiting for the answers you need. I know that waiting is hard and you are moving forward for yourself and girls. I hope things start to move a little faster for you. I think of you often.
Myrhh - (((())))) So sorry you are in turmoil again. But from what I can tell, you have gotten some great input here. So, where do you go now? H was doing a lot of crawling today. Can you make some requests from him at this point, such as MC or one-on-one timed discussions w/him? Something to get him to think more about his actions towards the M and how YOU are feeling? It is probably a knee-jerk reaction for him to act this way today but you do need more than that. Maybe the time away from him will give you both time to clear your heads a bit more and recover to deal w/what lies ahead. Just thoughts.
Take care all and I'll be swinging by again soon. Tootles......
