The topics are going to be the D and our taxes. Her friend is someone I'm okay with, but I may try to bring one of my own either way. I am planning on recording it, either way, and we're meeting at a restaurant.
I speculate she wants to talk about the D because she's going to want to request a court date and try to get it over with, but I can't be certain about that. Honestly, I have no idea what it is she wants to discuss about it. Honestly, it's just really weird to me that she wants to talk face to face at all about anything.
As for me, I don't really want to talk about the details of the D yet. There are some things that would be better discussed in mediation at this point. So, I'm reserving the right to walk away from the conversation if we start getting into territory that I'm not comfortable with.
I'm really feeling a lot of anxiety about the whole thing. I have been so busy with my own life that I haven't wanted to talk to her about stuff yet. I'm still too torn up about the split in the first place, so I've just been staying busy and not reaching out to her, and only responding when she contacts me.
I'm not sure what's up. She went from not wanting to talk to me in any way, shape, or form to wanting to have a sit down discussion. She even approached it by asking if I would be comfortable meeting with her...which seemed weird in a way, but then it also feels like shifting it onto me to make the decision.
I have no idea what to think about this whole thing. I'm sure she probably just wants to talk about setting a court date. At least, that's what I'm telling myself.
