I agree..but they rewrite the whole marriage to make it seem like it was us the whole time for like years. And some of it was..no doubt. But it takes 2. I know we made a lot of mistakes but we got through them. The Ws didn't though. They kept it in the back of their mind and prepared an escape by acting normal and sleeping in the same bed and going about it like a normal day. I feel for you and your son more than you know. 17 years of a noisy fun home to now an empty quiet house now. Its so sad its pathetic. I know I am a new guy, but I know I have a big heart and want to lift people up around me no matter what. What a mess were in...you and I didn't sign up for this at all. This will and has pushed us beyond our limits. Because you and I both know that we would never do this to anyone. It floors me that the Ws are capable of such damage. My wife just texted me asking if she can have the kids tonight after she asked if I would take them. I was thinking she was hanging with the OM all night again, WOW is all I can say. I told her I would drop my D10 off in a while. Its sad but I find comfort when my kids are with her so she doesn't go out all night ..no what I mean?
ME 47 W 38 M17 T20 Separated 5/20/18 D-bomb 7/9/2018 Nothing Filed 4 kids ages 6, 10, 14, 15