Steve, Thanks for sending this to me. It really has sunk in. My wife has probably been checked out fora at least 2 years. A few weeks ago she was out with the OM. My daughter went to go see her and she wasn't there of course. She called and W told her that she was tired and want to go to bed. My daughter said uuuhhh Im in your room. The W replied that she would have to visit in the morning and that she was busy. My D was heart broken and waited until 1:30 am. She never showed up and so she came home. While she was waiting for 4 hours she saw a journal on the Ws night stand. She found and entry. My D felt horrible for reading her journal but was mad at her. The journal read that she had seen this guy like 2 years ago at work and knew she wanted to get to know him. She was like a teenager writing about a crush. Talked about his beautiful beard and how it made her heart flutter and it was a breath of fresh air and how something inside her was awakened that she thought was dead and she was hiding her feeling or putting them off. So yeah...your dead right! It all starts way sooner...I feel like a moron for not picking up on any of it. So here I am.
ME 47 W 38 M17 T20 Separated 5/20/18 D-bomb 7/9/2018 Nothing Filed 4 kids ages 6, 10, 14, 15