My story. Advice needed

[equalzr]

I feel for you Lane. Its terrible. I can only imagine what we would be labeled by friends and family if we were the ones doing this. Pretty s****y thing to do to your families. I dont know how often you post Lane, but Im going to follow your situation and support you. Like you said, one day at a time.

Steve, its weird but i knew from day 1 that my W was most likely having a PA. She just started coming in at 3/4 in the morning with no explanations and acted like it was all normal. I just didnt have any proof. It took me almost a year to get some proof. Crazy thing is that no matter what proof you have, the W will still deny it. Im like "you cant deny it, i read the messages"..etc. We went from 15 years of happy and yes predictable family life, to "where is mom at"?

Your also right, as is the case with my W, she wasnt going anywhere unless she already had a replacement in hand.