My story. Advice needed

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You bet equal , I too lost 20 lbs. It actually feels good to lose a little weight but not in a stressful way. Keep positive and it will come around. I know our W's crossed the line on the M. They will regret it some day. Like you said, they detached and when the time was right they bolted and we had no idea. So if it took that long, it will probably take some time for us to realize everything. Right now I am still in shock. I still come home thinking its a bad dream. My kids are all confused as hell and all I can do is be there for them just like you are for your son. Be the stable parent. My plan is just like yours. Try to take it day by day and detach and try to be the best version of yourself. ITS HARD!! I hate this more than anything! I want it to end right now. But thats not how these things work. But the sooner we detach the sooner we will be happy on our own or just maybe our W's. Like you I really want my family back in one house. Keep praying and taking action on yourself. Let her go now! She will notice the change in you and start to wonder. But it won't be tomorrow or next week. It will be a while. Your a great man and probably a good looking SOB like myself. Your wife is crazy for doing this to you and will regret it. Now lets stay busy and detach today. Good luck my friend! I know you can do it!