Hello H, I will respond here first but i just read your thread and I will go there in a bit.
W got home from work and never said a word to me and hasnt since, I have not tried to speak with her as well. She is now being overly nice to the kids prob out of guilt but I really dont know. We have not told the kids anything, they will fnd out everything in due time and I do not want them to think I need there help, which I do not want them taking sides.
She is supposed to leave for vacation today, I really dont know where she is and I am not asking anyone. She left all her stuff here tooth brush, deodorant, etc. W's car is here and it has been here since 8:30am when I woke up. I guess being stealth is what she wants. I have noticed but have not discussed S21 becoming more withdrawn from W, he said that he doesnt understand how his mom could be going on another vacation and he thinks is wrong. Once again I just validate.
D19 is also on vaca going to cali with friends. Glad she can get away! She was very happy about the car accident situation.
I am GAL like crazy... will write an update soon.
S22 just came to me in tears, he never cries... will update later
M:52 W:49 D:26 S:24 S:23 D:20 ILYBNILWY 5/28/17 Still living together W filed 1/5/18 W moved out 8/24/18 D final 9/18/20