Wow, sounds like some critical things have happened. So what did W do when she got home from work that day and found all her stuff in the living room? Did you guys talk to the kids? Did she move out? Did she go on her vacation? Sorry, lol, it was like a lot of stuff got missed between your posts and all these questions jumped out at me.
Glad your daughter is ok, driving is always a big worry for a parent. My S17 is almost 18 and is obviously old enough to drive, but hasn't really had the time or the desire to spend too much time doing so and thus he still doesn't have his license. He's actually barely made it out of parking lot mode! We're going to work on it hard in the next couple weeks.
M: 43, H: 44 Married 18 yrs, Together 26 yrs S17, D15, D8, S6 Still living in MH