However, her phone log also showed her searching for the name of that pub and its location. I know, i know, prolly nothing and i shouldn't have been snooping. Still, not a big alarm bell-- she does not appear to have gone by there... but why do the search? FWIW i have gotten none of the vibes or cues i had gotten from her in the past when she had contacted or seen OM.
hi there, hoosjim... this here bothers me... especially when you add in all the other "tiny" things... i don't think it's okay that she didn't tell you she was going to comfort a friend... not that she needed to ask you, but to just let you know... it's only been about 4 months since the big debacle... the body image, the comments about OW... all of those things with the Google search may be nothing right now, but little by little, these things could lead to tiny steps toward things that are not good for your M... it's the "blurred lines" that can be dangerous...
have you two continued with MC? i suggest you get back in there if you have not been going... and i suggest that you suggest to her that she continue IC because of her self-esteem issues... she ought not fight you on this... and you ought not back down... don't become complacent hoosjim who is afraid to rock the boat... you are very early in the piecing stage... i would hate for this to fall into another "false start..." as always, mis dos centavos...
