i think you had the "R" talk just recently, and she has made it clear that she is not ready to be in a relationship... don't push it at this point... just because you two were married to each other does not mean this ought to move faster... perhaps it will move more slowly... see where it goes... see other women if you wish... but do not put her in a place where she needs to decide now or needs to decide soon... you will lose... if i were you, i would just enjoy this "newness" that only comes along when you are in a new relationship... and once you establish commitment, the newness eventually fades... it's called the warm fuzzies... enjoy it...
