So i just found out that this woman in my profession that i really admire is divorced. I met another woman that was also pretty awesome in my field...also divorced. I did not get personal. But my instinct tells me it was the husbands. Most of the single moms i know are pretty amazing. I think my favorite person of all time is jk rowling. I just love her.
But it scares me about men. And what is out there. (And im not meaning any of you guys here on DB. I know there are some crazy and selfish women out there as well) but i am wondering if maybe NG is not so bad? He wants exactly what I want. Which is a committed relationship and partnership. He would not cheat. He is not an addict. Isnt that most of the battle in finding someone? He texts me everyday. He will work with me on issues. Offers to help. He just has a blunt and filterless personality. We dont really have similar interests. Hes not very sociable either.
I read about kml and gingers (2 smart and incredible women) experiences with emotionally avoidant men. And ibworry that i dont know how bad things really are out there.
Many divorced guys, many of them divorce busters do not want a relationship. I read a lot from the male posters here about how they dont want anything serious. No purpose for them to entwine lives with someone when they dont have kids together. I can see that with my ex.
My friend and my mom tells me thats not true. That the guys they see are looking to settle down. I didnt really date. I basically just committed to the 1st perso inwent out with post divorce. I should not have done that.
