Mach1, you sometimes are too vague for me though. I am not sure what you meant by that.
Vague ??
I hadn't heard that : )
Hell, Cadet still doesn't understand me : )
I dunno buddy, to me, everything in life is a lesson. Albeit good or bad, it is a chance to learn.
Everything is an analogy, everything has a chance to teach perspective.
In part, it was a joke.
Would you trade Ham for Marriage ???
So it musta been some good Ham if you were gonna do that huh ???
So more thoughts on how to be different....
Lighten things up a bit.
You have (and she) spent the better part of two years dealing with crapload after crapload of continuous pressure in some form or another. Whether its been the marriage, the move, the house, your g-string too tight...
Whatever the form....
Lighten up, and relax a bit....
TRUST THE PROCESS......
You have been so immersed into "relationship" for so long now, that you over analyze every little thing.....
